Nicole Cowan
After 18 Years of Military Life, I Finally Let Myself Feel
We just PCS’ed to Fort Riley, Kansas… not our first move, not our hardest, but somehow it feels different. This year marks 18 years...
When Your Soul Knows Where Home Is: A Military Spouse’s Take on Finding Your...
We’ve moved a lot over the past 18 years. That’s just life in the military. My husband’s Army career has taken us to the...
The PCS Reset: A Perfect Time to Redefine Yourself
I’m gearing up for another PCS, and while I could write an entire blog about the challenges that come with moving (and trust me,...
PCS and Purchases: Why I Spend Like a Maniac After Every Move
We’re not even two months out from our latest PCS- this time from Fort Gregg-Adams to Fort Riley- and once again, I’ve found myself...
Keeping My Plants Alive (and Me, Too) During a PCS
There always comes a moment right before a PCS when it hits me: How am I going to get my plant babies from point...
Bridging the Gaps in Military Healthcare: How to Stay Proactive
Navigating healthcare as a military family often feels like playing an endless game of musical chairs. Frequent moves, the constant turnover of physicians at...
Dear Daughter: Growing Up While I Catch Up
Dear Daughter,
As I sit down to write this, I find myself overwhelmed by a mix of emotions. You are almost 18, about to graduate...
Raising Resilient Kids in a World of Constant Change
Life in a military family has its own rhythm, one filled with constant change. Orders come, boxes are packed, and life moves forward. For...
The Truth About Toxic Positivity: Embracing Negative Emotions for Growth
Positivity is often celebrated as the ultimate key to happiness and success. While a positive mindset can indeed be transformative, there is a darker...
Welcome to Fort Gregg Adams, Virginia: A Military Spouse’s Insider Tips
Since the fall of 2020, Fort Gregg Adams, Virginia, has been my home. As a military spouse, I’ve navigated the ins and outs of...
A Letter to my Fellow Military Spouses over 40
Dear Fellow Military Spouses Over 40,
I’m writing this letter with a heart full of understanding, camaraderie, and perhaps a little humor... because let’s face...
How To Get Started With Homeschooling
When my daughter was in second grade, I started homeschooling her for that year because we were in the middle of a PCS. For...











