Nicole Cowan
When Your Soul Knows Where Home Is: A Military Spouse’s Take on Finding Your...
We’ve moved a lot over the past 18 years. That’s just life in the military. My husband’s Army career has taken us to the...
The PCS Reset: A Perfect Time to Redefine Yourself
I’m gearing up for another PCS, and while I could write an entire blog about the challenges that come with moving (and trust me,...
PCS and Purchases: Why I Spend Like a Maniac After Every Move
We’re not even two months out from our latest PCS- this time from Fort Gregg-Adams to Fort Riley- and once again, I’ve found myself...
Keeping My Plants Alive (and Me, Too) During a PCS
There always comes a moment right before a PCS when it hits me: How am I going to get my plant babies from point...
Bridging the Gaps in Military Healthcare: How to Stay Proactive
Navigating healthcare as a military family often feels like playing an endless game of musical chairs. Frequent moves, the constant turnover of physicians at...
Dear Daughter: Growing Up While I Catch Up
Dear Daughter,
As I sit down to write this, I find myself overwhelmed by a mix of emotions. You are almost 18, about to graduate...
Raising Resilient Kids in a World of Constant Change
Life in a military family has its own rhythm, one filled with constant change. Orders come, boxes are packed, and life moves forward. For...
The Truth About Toxic Positivity: Embracing Negative Emotions for Growth
Positivity is often celebrated as the ultimate key to happiness and success. While a positive mindset can indeed be transformative, there is a darker...
Welcome to Fort Gregg Adams, Virginia: A Military Spouse’s Insider Tips
Since the fall of 2020, Fort Gregg Adams, Virginia, has been my home. As a military spouse, I’ve navigated the ins and outs of...
A Letter to my Fellow Military Spouses over 40
Dear Fellow Military Spouses Over 40,
I’m writing this letter with a heart full of understanding, camaraderie, and perhaps a little humor... because let’s face...
How To Get Started With Homeschooling
When my daughter was in second grade, I started homeschooling her for that year because we were in the middle of a PCS. For...
Sometimes You Thrive, And Sometimes You Survive
This military spouse journey is a roller coaster, with duty stations where I thrived and some where I merely survived. In the last 17...












