Military Lifestyle
Expectations For When Your Active Duty Child Returns Home
Jenn Smith - 0
HOORAY! They're coming home!
The season is here for our active duty service daughters and sons to come home. They have been gone for...










I’m Air Force. E5. When I get that comment, I stare long and hard at the person who said it with a slightly confused look on my face and say: “why would I do that?” When the person stares blankly back at me, and I raise my eyebrows awaiting their answer, they quickly change their mind and correct themselves telling me: “thank you for your service”. To which I kindly reply, “you’re welcome” (or “no problem”, or several other synonymous phrases).
LOL this is a great response. I’m going to steal it.
I appreciate your raising awareness – that is SO important! Thank you. Personally, I would definitely not ‘let it pass’, I would say, “Actually, I am the veteran, my husband is the civilian”. You TOTALLY deserve the respect and appreciation of the American public. We are just clueless! I’m sorry, and THANK YOU for your service!
I just got hit with this on Saturday at a Vets event at my school. I was wearing my Student Vets Association jacket and everything.
When I say “no, I’m a vet,” they nearly always ask if my husband served too.
Why is this situation so hard for people to imagine?
Ps. Loved seeing those photos from Afghanistan!
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