Finding Gratitude in the Ordinary

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November is National Gratitude Month. Lately, I have been thinking about gratitude in the ordinary.

Not the big, everyday life happenings that we recognize and celebrate. But the little things. The things we don’t easily recognize. The ordinary blessings are right in front of us and go unnoticed.

When was the last time I sat down with a good cup of coffee or tea and perused a magazine?

Or stopped and smelled something baking in our oven or the freshness of Fall on your morning walk?

We can not forget the beauty of those sunrises or sunsets when days are shorter, or when our dogs or cats greet us with smiles and wagging tails even though they just saw us ten minutes ago.

I’m not sure about you, but I take these ordinary moments like that for granted. I spend so much time waiting for the “extraordinary “ blessings – the planned vacation, the next time they come home – that I tend to miss what is right in front of me. I fail to recognize the season I’m in. The air I breathe, the roof over our heads, the food on my table. For the hands that I have been given to work with and play.

For all the lessons I have learned along the way.

But what if I slow down a bit and recognize how really extraordinary those blessings are?

Gratitude doesn’t mean everything is perfect, that we don’t have hard days, disappointments, worries, things that don’t go according to my plans. Or all-out failures.  It means, to me, finding gratitude in the middle of it all. Though it can be very small, I need to open my eyes wide to see the goodness all around. 

One day I will look back and realize those little things were actually big things right in front of me. During this month of November, I will not only be thankful, but I will take notice and find gratitude in the ordinary. I hope you will too.

Blessings~

Jenn

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Jenn Smith
Hey I'm Jenn, NYer turned OKie after my husbands 30 year ARMY career. We have four pretty amazing adult kids, two of which are active duty soldiers, so yes we are "empty nesters" But that didn't last, we bought 40 acres called The Roost and a few chickens to fill that void. Though my career was Physical Therapy many years ago, I chose to stay at home with our kids during my husband's active duty career with lots of volunteering added to my resume. I dabbled in substitute teaching at many duty stations and started contract work with R. Riveter as a Remote Leather Riveter, RR131 :). I love to cook, garden, create garden/field to table recipes and listen to audiobooks while doing that. My goal is to "keep moving" so staying active as long as I can through running, yoga, biking is my go to, but I do enjoy a frothy cup of black coffee, a glass of wine and chips and salsa. Here with Military Mom Collective I want to inspire, guide, share tips and tricks that we have learned through our military journey. Also to help other empty nester moms out there who have kids that are active duty. It is a different ball game when your kids are active and deploying, but we can get through it together.

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